See you soon… Mr. Walrus!

I find myself at odds with ghosts from my past.  This week I take a big step towards personal growth in facing one of my biggest fears: The Walrus.  But not just any walrus - The Walrus. It all started when I was eight years old.  Now, I feel obligated to tell you, The Good Reader, …

Continue reading See you soon… Mr. Walrus!

Think About Not Thinking

There is an old trick where when you can't make up your mind on any given decision you are facing you count to three and immediately blurt out the first thing that comes to you.  They say that is your gut reaction.  The decision your subconscious directs. The decision your heart is set on.  It's complete …

Continue reading Think About Not Thinking

The Pilgrimage

On the first day of my most recent vacation I challenged myself to summarize the intent for this time away in one word.  For whatever reason pilgrimage came to mind.  Not resolution. Not fulfilment. Not preservation.  But pilgrimage.  Pilgrimage?  I don't believe I have ever used that word in a sentence before.  But that is what came to mind. I don't …

Continue reading The Pilgrimage

5 Steps for Fighting Discouragement

Whether it be in the office, at home, with friends, or while working on a pet project, discouragement is a difficult thing to get through.  To many of us, encouragement is something sought from others whereas discouragement manifests within our own self.  Below are five steps that can help transcend the frustrations brought on from discouragement. 1. Seek …

Continue reading 5 Steps for Fighting Discouragement

Chance for a Change

I watched an old episode of Friends recently.  Rachel (Jennifer Aniston) was explaining to Ross (David Schwimmer) her feelings on passion in a relationship.  Ross, in his weepy, solemn way explained something along the lines of: "Passion is great, but it eventually will give way to things like trust and security.  Both great things."  I …

Continue reading Chance for a Change